Be You.

I have a problem with people who tend to reduce their class and self esteem just to make a guy feel better about themselves.

Never reduce yourself to please anyone or to change the impression people have about you, or to make a certain kind of people attracted to you. If you have a shitty attitude work on it and get better with frequent practice, and if you have a just attitude but people do not seem to be comfortable with what you do, the truth is no one will be entirely comfortable with what you do because they are humans and the only thing constant is change.

Instead of stressing on becoming a wife material for your current man, how about you start being yourself and see how he accepts the toxic. Like a lot of people accept shits from their partners and do not get me wrong both genders can be affected by this. We have men who try to be extra spiritual and motivational to a Lady just to win her heart and ensure she falls in love with him, we also have ladies who in the name of not wanting to look like a gold digger or a non-wife material will turn around and be giving strategies of how they can manage things and how contented they are without getting any special treatment in return. anu e oshemi (I pity you).

Be yourself no matter who or what is involved, apply sense when needed and enjoy every moment.

I am the only premium version of myself! What are you??