Far Away

I am not going to sugar coat the words, long distance relationships are difficult to maintain and keep, but regardless of the troubles and misunderstanding, if both parties are willing to grease their elbows they should be just fine.

Things you might want to put into check mark when in a long distance relationship are;

# You need to both clearly communicate your values and what is important to one another.

# Communication is key but understanding is prominent because, if you just communicate without understanding there will be multiple misunderstandings.

# Consistency is something you should take seriously. If you are going to be unavailable, do not just go AWOL without communicating and expect the other to understand the nature of the kind of job you do. # Discovery is another essential in your relationship, yes, he/she might tell you stuffs but along the line you should be open and attentive to discover stuffs about one another

# Creativity is another ingredient you definitely do not want to miss out in your relationship, with your discovery comes the creativity, be ready to wow your partner.

# Intimacy like "Sexting" is also something that helps you both when talking, you both can discuss what you would love to do to one another. Remember to make it genuine, that way you will enjoy every bit of it. This may not come natural so remember to take your time, slow and steady and before you know it, it won't feel awkward.

# Debate, sounds tricky but yes, it will come around and you have to be able to say something without hurting one another. Stick with your opinion, but do not be against the other opinion.

# Discuss about future plans, fantasies, dreams, career. Remember to share your full opinion on this matter, it helps shape your thoughts and understand one another better.

# Appraisal of one another is another key to growing your intimacy

Things you should avoid when in a long distance relationship;

# Never go to sleep angry at your partner, it kills the intimacy and fondness

# Do not expect the other partner to keep doing stuffs just because he/she has always been doing it. If you love it, exchange the gesture.

# Do not wait for the other party call when you need to talk to them.

# Do not compare your current with past relationships.

# As a lady you need to quit nagging it ruins a lot of good things, if you are pissed speak up, apologize if needed and let go after issue has been resolved. Do not reincarnate the past experience. # Do not wait for birthdays or occasions to gift one another

Long distance can work, but it would need the two parties to actually contribute not just one person holding the tree to prevent it from falling. With two hands a tree will stand stronger and taller. Learn to work together, if you want it, you will work for it.

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