Why blame anybody!

I have been seeing various comments and posts about the lady who called out her husband's side chic. Truth is am not here to side anybody but to give my honest opinion.

Why? do we blame people when they act when we haven't even been in their shoes, your tolerance level is quite different from another. I have friends who already think it is okay for their man to cheat on them so far he doesn't impregnate her nor bring her home. Honestly, tell yourself what you want for yourself, don't say because somebody said or because this is how it has always been. Are we forgetting the constant thing in our lives is "change"?? well, to the matter i do not blame the woman for what she did to the side chic. Personally, I leave people to their opinion so far as i have shared mine with them and they have shared theirs with me. Do not go about saying she is this, she is that please give your opinion and get the fuck out of that place, if your advise is needed it shall be sought for. As for the man who said he will upgrade his side chic, that's his way of showing his intellectual so of cos i wouldn't blame him for sharing his opinion. #ThursdayThoughts